When you enter your third year of high school, friends often talk about what they are going to do after graduation – whether they are going to go to college or get a job, and which university to go to and what to study if they are going to continue their schooling. Sometimes talking about it can make you confused and even cease understanding what you want to do. There are also people who have been interested in Japan for a long time and are thinking that they would like to study abroad in Japan.
[The experiences of “A”]
A finally decided to study abroad in Japan after thinking about it for a long time. He gathered information, found resources, and got in contact with schools. Everything was okay – the type of entrance examination system, application deadlines, and amount of fees. All that was left was receiving his Certificate of Eligibility for Resident Status. His heart pounded with worry about whether he would be able to receive it, but then it finally came one day! Yay! It wouldn’t be long before his dream came true. He applied for a visa and other necessary paperwork from the Japanese Embassy, and then began to wait. As he waited, he had to make a variety of preparations for his journey to Japan.
There are only two seasons in Indonesia, but Japan has four seasons. A was confused about what sort of clothes he should take for the winter. He had other worries as well, such as what medicines he would need and how much money he should bring. His heart was full of all sorts of emotions: happiness, sadness at leaving his family, and expectation from imagining what sort of country Japan actually is. Wait for me, Japan!
The day came for A’s departure to Japan. It was the day that he would leave behind his own country, family, home, friends, school, and the town he loved. When he got onto the plane he thought about his life up until then, and was glad that all the difficult procedures had gone so well. His new life was starting! He was scared but happy to think of his new lifestyle, new people, new school, and new country! What should he do when he arrived in Japan? He began thinking of different plans, and felt like a new adventure was beginning.
A arrived in Japan and took his first breath of Japan’s air. He experienced many new discoveries and encounters finding Japanese trains, his school, his dormitory, and his apartment.
One day passed, then one week, one month, three months… It wasn’t all fun, though; A also experienced many difficulties. His school was quite far from the train station and it was hard to walk there. His Japanese wasn’t very good so he couldn’t say what he wanted to. He had a hard time finding a part time job, and even when he did everyone who worked there spoke so fast that he couldn’t understand them, so they were always getting angry at him. He wondered why his room was so small, why he had to take the train and run to catch his connecting train…
“That’s it, he thought. “It’s too hard to live in Japan!”
When he looked at photographs of his parents, siblings, and friends, he remembered his life in Indonesia and began to cry. He missed everyone and wanted to be near them, to feel the warmth of being together, to go home… His goal was to study abroad in Japan, but he never thought it would be so terrible and difficult.
[Advice to A]
First of all, take a deep breath. Things were hard but you did your best, so everything is okay. No matter where you are, you will experience difficulties. Not all of life is fun – it also involves hardship. But when you’re far apart from the people who constantly support you, you can feel alone and become very lonely. Don’t worry – even though you’re far apart, your parents, siblings, and friends are always praying for you.
Life doesn’t always go according to plan. Studying abroad isn’t your final goal but is the first step towards making your dreams come true. To realize your dreams, you don’t just go to school, study, and learn only about the specialized subjects you enjoy. You also build self-reliance and grow while learning about life. As you adapt to Japanese society, there will be times that you feel overwhelmed by human relationships and culture shock. Your strength is born from that pain. I believe that by overcoming your unhappy feelings you can become a strong human being.
Please accept that the life of an international student involves fun but also many unpleasant or difficult things. Just like many colors together make a beautiful rainbow, a variety of experiences bring rich color to your life. The international students who completed their studies in Japan before you also lived through fun and difficult things, and they learned from their experiences. These experiences are a treasure.
When things don’t go according to plan, you should consider what is wrong, look at yourself, and analyze what is happening. Why aren’t things going as you planned? Try consulting with your teachers, friends, or older students. And when you make plans, you need to consider your own skills as well. It’s okay to dream about going to the best university, but if this doesn’t come true it’s a good idea to also research other universities as well.
Life doesn’t always happen according to plan. When you think about it, isn’t it more interesting that way? Only God knows what is going to happen in the future, and even when we think that we have planned things perfectly our fate is probably something different. Don’t you think that life would be very boring if it all went as planned? That’s why you should try to be positive and enjoy yourself no matter what happens.
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